Flying Solo? How to Not Squander the Single Life

Navigating the single life feels a lot like a roller coaster. There’s a pang of jealousy that comes with seeing glued-to-the-joint couples. You ask yourself questions like, “Why am I still alone?” But you also get a deep sense of relief when you hear about your bud’s relationship drama. Finally, you decide that not having a plus one isn’t so bad. The next step is to make the most of it.

Whether you’re swiping through dating apps or putting all your focus into work, here are some ways to capitalize on your bachelorhood.

Ask any taken man and they will say they miss having late-night drinks with their best bros. Sure, you can still hang out with friends when you’re in a relationship, but you have to check in with your SO now and then. So one of the benefits of being single is being free to go out whenever and meet whomever you want, no explanations needed.

Spend quality time with your inner circle. After all, your barkada has been with you through thick and thin. Now is the time to make crazy memories with your inner circle. Bonus: they make the best wingmen, too!

Don’t wait for other people’s schedules to open up. Your single life is all about taking chances and exploring what the world has to offer. So go ahead and book that plane ticket. You’ll be surprised at how much you enjoy your own company.

Before traveling to far-off places, plan an itinerary and list all items you need to pack in your bag. Check the weather at your destination, too. If it’s somewhere sunny and tropical, bring Master Deep Cleanser Oil Control Max in your carry-on to keep your mug refreshed. This antibacterial face wash has cooling ZEROil, which controls oil for up to eight hours, keeping shine (and pimples!) away.

This is not a free pass to spiral into slacker mode, just a friendly reminder that you can spend a day doing nothing, especially when you’re not feeling your best. Stay in, order takeouts, and watch Die Hard for the millionth time. Practice self-care since, right now, you’re not responsible for anyone else but yourself.

Tired of catching up with deadlines all week? Sleep until noon on Saturday. Unwind and enjoy your boundless freedom by taking it slow. You can even use an all-in-one product like Dove Men+Care Refreshing Clean Shampoo if showering is at the bottom of your to-do list. This conditioning shampoo cleanses, nourishes, and strengthens your hair from roots to ends with its caffeine and menthol combo.

After your shower, pick up a book, play video games, or continue your Netflix binge. No pressure.

We’re not solely talking about going to the gym and lifting weights. Going solo can be lonesome if you keep thinking that life starts only when you meet someone special. Now is the time to discover what you really want and create opportunities for yourself.

Do things to make you feel good, not things people expect of you. If you find peace in working out, go for it. If walking around the city to find the best steak is more your thing, go ahead. You call the shots. Whatever you decide, do it with gusto. And most importantly, lean into the idea that anything can happen if you take risks.

Single men can fall into the trappings of pity parties and self-doubt. Embarrassing memories of dating fails can haunt you in the shower. Shoulda, woulda, couldas can keep you from getting precious sleep. Ultimately, only you can stop the cycle by working on yourself.

Do you have any toxic traits? Are you a walking red flag? Are you single because of a lack of confidence, or is it arrogant? Maybe it’s something more complicated like poor communication skills? Whatever it is, work on improving yourself and focus on the present. 

Single life doesn’t have to suck. It’s all about shifting your mindset and making the most of these days alone with a healthy balance of fun and self-improvement. The next time someone dares to ask why you’re single, tell them you’re leveling up.